In Japan, under the influence of Zen, the tea ceremony was developed as a way to make every movement conscious, every gesture sacred. With horses, we can do the same. The act of offering a hand, or opening a gate, or setting down a bucket can become an expression of care, respect, and awareness.
Every action we take with a horse, large or small, has a purpose. Whether you are haltering, grooming, leading, or simply standing together, each moment offers an opportunity to connect through awareness.
If your focus becomes fixed only on the end result, getting the horse to move, perform, or respond a certain way, you lose touch with the living moment that gives the action its true meaning. You overlook the doing itself, which is to say, the present moment. Then, your time with the horse becomes reduced to a means to an end.
When we live this way, always trying to reach the next goal, next task, next success, we miss the aliveness of what is actually happening now. The same is true in our horsemanship. If every session is only about achieving something in the future, we are not fully here, and the horse feels that absence.
To the horse, presence is everything. They live entirely in the now. When we join them there, something shifts. The quality of the relationship deepens. The experience becomes fuller, richer, more peaceful, not because we have achieved anything special, but because we are truly with them.
So, begin with the smallest of actions. When you brush your horse, feel the texture of the coat beneath your hand, the rhythm of the strokes, the warmth of their body. Notice the sound of their breath, the flick of an ear, the soft shift of weight. Be there for it, not rushing, not thinking ahead.
When you walk together, be conscious of every step. Feel your feet on the ground, the swing of your arms, the alignment between your body and the horses movement. You do not need to slow down unnaturally, only to bring full awareness to what you are doing.
This quality of attention transforms ordinary moments, putting on a halter, leading to pasture, offering water, even cleaning a stall, into meditations. Each becomes a doorway into presence.
You may notice that when you handle things, ropes, brushes, buckets, with quiet attention and respect, the horse feels that energy. Consciousness is not only in your mind, it moves through your body, your breath, your touch.
This is what we might call consecrated action, where doing becomes sacred, not because of what you achieve, but because of how you are being while you do it.
Whether you are simply greeting your horse, asking for movement, or resting together in silence, remember, quality of action arises from quality of presence. To the horse, presence is the highest language of connection.
So, as you engage in each activity, let your attention rest in the sensations, the sounds, the rhythm of the shared moment. Move consciously. Breathe consciously. Allow the ordinary to become art.
Hurry slowly, as they say in Zen. You can move with purpose and still remain deeply grounded inside. The horse will meet you there, not in your goal, but in your presence.
Nancy Zintsmaster
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